Jaiya, a sexological body-worker, educator, and prolific author, discusses the Erotic Blueprint types and the role that they play in our relationships. In this episode, Jaiya shares how own blueprint has shifted throughout her life and details the different characteristics of each of the five blueprint types.
What You’ll Hear:
- What inspired her work on postpartum health
- How her sexuality shifted after becoming a mom
- What the Erotic Blueprints are and why they’re important
- How she helps individuals understand, feed, and heal their blueprints through the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course
What She Shares:
- The pelvic floor trauma she endured while giving birth to her sonÂ
- Pressure within the sex-positive community for postpartum sexÂ
- “We have multiple sexualities.”Â
- Men and postpartum sexuality
- What led to her first session with Dr. Ellen HeedÂ
- How her Erotic Blueprint changed after having her sonÂ
- What she learned from her surveys with postpartum womenÂ
- Talking about sex in contemporary society
- The difference between her and her partner’s sexuality postpartumÂ
- Finally having sex for pleasure
- The five Erotic BlueprintsÂ
- Why boundaries are so difficult for Energetics
- The Sensual’s “superpower”Â
- Not understanding our partner’s Erotic Blueprint can lead to “consent coercion”Â
- Culture and Sexuals’ Erotic BlueprintÂ
- Your Erotic Blueprint only shows you where you’re limitedÂ
- Psychological vs. Sensation-BasedÂ
- How the Kink Realm helped her find her voice and healÂ
- Erotic Blueprints give us a language to understand our ever-changing sexual mapsÂ
- Shape-Shifters, erotic sophistication, and capacity for pleasureÂ
- Where you can find out more about the Erotic Blueprints and how to find out your own typeÂ
- Her Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course
- How our sexuality as a culture is changingÂ